When ten years ago, Kate secretly told me that she kissed a girl, that feeling very good, let her stay in love for a long time. Ten years later, the world has undergone tremendous changes. The LGBT community has organized bisexuals, homosexuals, and transgenders to walk proudly on the street. It is a new era for men seeking men, girls love girls. So in such an open mind, what do we need to pay attention to when dating a bisexual?
1. Bisexuals want others to identify with her
Unlike other sexual orientations, bisexuality is the potential to be attracted to the same gender or opposite gender (romantically and/or sexually). For example, a bisexual can be attracted to a male because of sexual needs, or at the same time, he can be attracted by a female due to romantic reason. When you are dealing with him, you need to understand what this attraction means. You can even discuss such topics with him so that you can learn more about your partner.
2. Don’t expect bisexuals to completely “close” interest in others
When you are dating a straight man, don’t expect that the person you are dating will give up interest in other opposite sexes. This applies equally to bisexuals. They are unlikely to become completely uninterested in other opposite sexes and same-sex because of their relationship with you. Like other relationships, communication and trust are the ways to make this relationship last. Everyone will show love or worship to the people around them at some time, you should learn to accept.
3. Bisexuals don’t change over time
When you choose a bisexual, you don’t expect him to become “normal” one day. He may end other relationships because of his relationship with you, but it does not mean that he will not be interested in other opposite sexes or same-sex. You need to learn to understand and respect their characteristics, and take his hand to the age of one hundred and still remember his characteristics.
4. Don’t care about his ex
This article applies to all love relationships. Who is his ex, what gender does not affect your relationship, and does not affect his feelings with you. Of course, if his ex is different from your gender, it will be a bit complicated, but this is the love you want to choose. Don’t ruin your love for some unnecessary reasons.
5. Bisexuals are the same as you and me.
Bisexuals are like you and me. They have their own lives, their social circles, their preferences, and partners. They don’t want to have sex with everyone, just like the choice of a normal person. I met a bisexual, he is handsome and talented, is the potential to be attracted by men and women. And last, he chooses me, I am so happy to fall in love with him.